The Social Contract

You have just been asked to give a speech or presentation and are all fired up to do a great job. Congratulations. You will undoubtedly have many questions about your presentation. However, there is one question – indeed the most important question – that should be the first one you ask (and answer): “What’s in […]
The Dating Game

The Dating Game was a popular TV show in the 1960s and 1970s. The concept was simple. Three contestants tried to win a date with a man or woman by impressing him or her with their answers to question. The contestants were hidden and the person asking the questions knew nothing about them other than the sound […]
I have a dream . . .

But only because I’m not awake! During a speech on Martin Luther King Day, Bill Clinton falls asleep. Hey, it happens to the best of us. It’s a good reminder of the importance of keeping our audiences engaged. And awake.
Seabiscuit and Public Speaking

I never thought that a non-fiction book about a sport I rarely follow would hold my attention, but after only a few pages of “Seabiscuit: An American Legend” by Laura Hillenbrand, I was hooked. The story of the little brown horse with the big heart, and the three men who overcame their own hardships to make […]
Finding the right word

Finding the right word is not always easy. Sometimes when preparing a speech, we find ourselves searching for the right way in which to express our thoughts. We know what we want to say, but the words that present themselves seem bland or weak. Better ones are undoubtedly out there, but they stubbornly elude us. A good dictionary […]
Good reading, good speaking

I used to receive a newsletter called Spiritual Wealth. It has since stopped and is no longer on line. Its motto came from social reformer Henry Ward Beecher: “No man can tell whether he is rich or poor by turning to his ledger. It is the heart that makes a man rich. He is rich according to what he is, not […]
Funny You Should Say That!

Delivering a humorous speech is no laughing matter. Especially when you are in a humorous speech contest and trying to impersonate the Terminator. It’s hard work. In the fall of 2008, I had the terrific experience of competing in the Toastmasters Humorous Speech Contest in District 59 (18 countries in Continental Europe). The contest has […]
Tell Me a Story

I love a good story. As a child, I could listen for hours to the tales told by my parents, grandparents, teachers and others. As I grew older, I sought out stories through novels, films or theatre. As a parent, I thoroughly enjoyed reading books (complete with voice characterizations) to my two daughters when they were younger. […]
Your speaking rate

Know your speaking rate. Frequently, we have to give a speech within strict time limits. Speech contests are a good example. If a speaker goes over time by even one second, she is disqualified. Other examples include being given a 30-minute slot at a conference or 15 minutes to do an after-dinner speech. Those who speak longer than they should do […]
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