Quotes for Public Speakers (No. 254) – Warren Bennis

Warren Bennis – American Scholar and Leadership Expert

“Becoming a leader is synonymous with becoming yourself. It is precisely that simple, and it is also that difficult.”

— Warren Bennis

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Quotes for Public Speakers (No. 253) – Dale Carnegie

Dale Carnegie (1888 – 1955) American Writer and Lecturer

“Practise, practise, PRACTISE in speaking before an audience will tend to remove all fear of audiences, just as practise in swimming will lead to confidence and facility in the water. You must learn to speak by speaking.”

— Dale Carnegie

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Like Riding a Bike

Seth Godin is the author of several books about “marketing, the spread of ideas and managing both customers and employees with respect”. They are bestsellers. His blog is one of my favourites and I highly recommend it.

I love cycling. And living just outside of Geneva, Switzerland, I am spoiled by the options that I have. I can ride along the shores of Lake Geneva; I can ride hilly roads that take me through spectacular vineyards; I can climb the Jura Mountains; and if I am feeling ambitious, I can throw the bike in the car and in less than two hours be in the French Alps riding some of the mythical climbs of the Tour de France.

Over the years, I have logged thousands of hours and tens of thousands of kilometres cycling all kinds of terrain in all kinds of weather. But it all began long ago when I first learned to ride a bicycle as a young boy.

My memories of that time revolve around bruised elbows and scraped knees; around falling down and getting back up. Again and again and again. Until one glorious day when my father let go and I stayed up! I remember that feeling of exhilaration to this day. And I remember feeling proud that I had persisted even when it wasn’t fun.

In this blog post from 8 April 2017, Seth takes us back to the time when we learned how to ride a bike. And how we learned by doing it wrong, over and over, until we learned how to do it right.

Even if you have never been on a bicycle, you have learned some skill the same way that people learn how to ride a bike. By doing it wrong; by making mistakes; by sticking with it; by learning how to do it the right way.

You learn public speaking the same way. Not just by taking a course; not just by watching TED Talks; not just by reading this blog. By getting on stage and speaking. Over and over and learning from your mistakes.

That’s how you become a good cyclist. That’s how you become a good speaker.

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Like riding a bike

by Seth Godin

People talk about bike riding when they want to remind us that some things, once learned, are not forgotten.

What they don’t mention is how we learned. No one learns to ride a bike from a book, or even a video.

You learn by doing it.

Actually, by not doing it. You learn by doing it wrong, by falling off, by getting back on, by doing it again.

PS – This approach works for lots of things, not just bikes. Most things, in fact.

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Quotes for Public Speakers (No. 252) – Jack Kerouac

Jack Kerouac (1922 – 1969) American Novelist and Poet

“One day I will find the right words, and they will be simple.

— Jack Kerouac

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Four Public Speaking Lessons – and a Drone!

I recently had the pleasure of spending 10 days in Barcelona for work and pleasure. The first week was spent at IESE Business School where, once or twice a year, I join four others to teach public speaking and communication skills to the class of IESE’s Executive MBA Programme.

The week is always intense and rewarding. This year, 117 students were challenged, pushed and stretched to become better speakers and better leaders. The growth, in skills and confidence, that we see in the students in such a short time is always inspiring. 

But the week is also inspiring because I get to spend it with four great friends for whom public speaking excellence is just one of their many talents: Tony Anagor; Florian Mueck; Conor Neill; and Tobias Rodrigues. Our many conversations are thought-provoking and motivating.

Conor is an expert on video blogging and when we get together at IESE, we always shoot some educational videos. But this time, there was something new. Conor recently received a drone as a birthday present. And this meant one thing: gratuitous drone footage!

In the video below, Florian, Tobias, Tony and I share four public speaking lessons to help you empower your speaking and communication. Specifically, we discuss:

  • effective gestures
  • powerful pauses
  • empowering feedback
  • intentional communication

And did I mention that there’s also gratuitous drone footage? Enjoy!

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